Just received the unit and set it up to be master clock for all my devices including pedals, synths and the windows Ableton 10 DAW and certainly does that

I want to hand the device to our drummer to set the tempo and control the DAW tempo but I cant get it to start (and record) where i put the cursor in Ableton, it keeps going to the 1 position. I dont care who starts the recording in the DAW using Ableton or the Nome II. But I cant have it starting at the 1 position each time because we may stop and start the recordings many time during the day and i dont want it to over write the just recorded session.
How can I have the Nome be master clock and if I press record in ableton (or play on the nome) it starts where I put the cursor and the Nome manages the tempo?
thoughts?
cheers